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What do you do when your primary maternity
caregiver (in most cases your OB-Gyne) leaves town at the start of your 7th
month for a 3-month training? I
panicked! Wouldn’t you? For one, it’s just that I’m so
comfortable with her already and your full trust and confidence in your OB-Gyne
is one of the keys to a happy and healthy pregnancy! Second, in as much as she referred another practitioner, I’m
already working with one of the best OB’s in the country! Being in a foreign country, it’s really
hard to find options that have been trusted by family and friends. Moreover, I have this preference for
women doctors (at least for an OB-Gyne) and in a country where male OB-Gyne’s
have more prominence, it’s a challenge!
But, my fear was short-lived. At least I didn’t have to sleep with
the nagging feeling of who is going to take care of me and my baby? Who is going to deliver our little
bundle of joy?
For one, my mom assured me that even
midwives can deliver your baby.
And true enough, I mean even in other countries, midwives may be on “equal”
prominence when it comes to maternal medicine.
Second, our Birthing Class instructor,
gave me good feedback on Doctor #1’s referral. They have different styles of practice but Doctor #2 is good
as well. She was soooo lovely to
help me on my query even if we have only met once and haven’t even started with
our birthing classes then!
Third, this is what I love about working in
an organization that has a Medical Marketing arm. They have an insider’s information on the doctors and it’s
best to check references with them.
They provided me with an awesome review and even positive reviews from
Doctor #2’s other patients!
Fourth, she is the aunt of my
officemate. What a small world
right?
Fifth, I got more doctor recommendations
but I decided to trust my Doctor #1’s recommendation and because they both
deliver in the same hospital.
So off to Doctor #2 we went. Hubby and I were very, very happy to
have been recommended and be in the care of a lovely woman. Indeed their practices were different. But I immediately felt comfortable with
Doctor # 2. She is so motherly and
emits such a positive vibe. She’s
also very practical in her view of things. I was asking her about Birth Plans – and she said, well, in
other countries (she has also practiced in the UK) that is the norm but in Sri
Lanka, not really. Instead she
advised me to keep my mind open, before we give birth we will see the position
of the baby and her condition and what not and we will do the needful. Which is just right – even for a
control freak like me. Haha! She also simplified my pre-natal
vitamin list! Haha! And most of
all, she loves laughing. For those
who know me and my hubby, you know how hard and loud we can both laugh
right? Perfect fit! But really it was amazing for me to see
a doctor who still gets awed by the sight of baby kicking. And relish in the beauty of life.
Doctor #2 is Dr. Kamanie Mayadunne and she
channels at Lanka Hospitals. You
may contact her secretary Hinesha for schedule at 0115431146.
A new doctor this late in the game is always stressful! I remember I was 26 weeks pregnant coming to the US and part of my stress was leaving the OB that I had since the beginning of my pregnancy! But it all worked out and I loved the midwives that delivered both my girls!
ReplyDeleteI know!!! Glad you had a wonderful experience with the midwives! I'm curious, how different are they from the doctors? Our birthing class teacher was a midwife in the UK and medyo na-tempt na ako to just ask her - ikaw nalang! And let's just do a home birth para tipid! Hahahaha!
ReplyDeleteHey how did it go? Me and the wife are visiting doc # 2 wondering if the Internet had any infor on her and came across your blog. We just picked her name at random :) I would love to hear an update on how it went if that's not too much trouble.
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